Miracles happen sometimes. I just said, there is nothing to fight over anymore. He agreed and said, he has changed. He said, he wants it to be ok for Zach. I want to give my son his father for Christmas. Even if it’s just the idea that he is loved by his dad. Zach has autism, at our home that makes him more sensative and emotional and not less. He is watching movies on Animal Planet. They have dads in these movies. He’s been sad at times.
I found out we are not divorced. After all these years! He actually called and made arragements to fix this. I have a call from a lawyer on my caller ID. So I know he has taken some action. I need the divorce papers. To get my name on my drivers liscence. Until three weeks ago, I had no idea where my ex was. No way to contact him. After years of not knowing his ex ( the girl he ran off with) gave me his email.
Divorce is common in homes with autism. A phone call and a card will go a long way for my son.
This might be brief but time enough for some healing for Zach and to learn the truth about how he really feels about his dad.